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Types of financial disputes that can lead to divorce

Money problems are one of the most common reasons couples choose to divorce. Financial issues can put a serious strain on a relationship. Over time, these issues can lead to arguments, resentment and emotional distance. Below are some of the most common financial disputes that may contribute to the breakdown of a marriage. Disagreements about spending habits Spouses often have different views on how to manage money. One may regularly make large purchases, such as buying new electronics or planning vacations, without asking the other. The more cautious partner may prefer to stick to a budget and avoid extra expenses. This mismatch can lead...

10 March

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Should you keep using social media during your divorce?

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The use of social media when going through a divorce is a debatable subject. Some recommend not using it, while others believe it can be harmless, provided one is careful about what they post. So, should you keep using social media during your divorce? Will you be tempted to post negative things about your spouse? Leaving contentious comments on your soon-to-be ex-spouse’s posts or talking about them negatively on social media can disadvantage you. Your behavior may be strongly considered when the court makes decisions regarding child custody and other crucial elements. If your divorce involves conflicts you believe can be worsened by you...

12 February

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How your spouse may hide assets during divorce

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When you’re going through a divorce, part of the process is making financial disclosures to the court. It’s important to be honest and not hide assets, or you could risk being held in contempt of court. That said, people do still try to hide assets, often in an effort to keep those assets out of property division. You may be concerned that your spouse is going to do this if you are having a contentious divorce, so here are a few tactics to be aware of. Undervaluing items One tactic that people use is to buy expensive items and then purposely undervalue them...

29 January

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Red flags that divorce may be on the horizon

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It can be helpful to prepare in advance for a divorce. To this end, it’s beneficial to know what red flags to look for so that you can see if your relationship may be headed in that direction. Of course, everyone’s relationship is unique so you will have your own personal factors to consider. But here are a few red flags that you want to keep in mind. Your lifestyles are very different If you and your spouse are very different, it can eventually lead to conflicts, especially as you get older. For instance, maybe you like saving money for retirement, but your...

19 December

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FAQs about the divorce process in North Carolina

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Navigating the divorce process can feel overwhelming, especially when emotions run high. Understanding the basics of divorce in North Carolina can help you approach it with greater confidence. You may find it helpful to know the answers to some of the most common questions about divorce in the state. 1. How long do I have to live in the state to file for divorce? You must reside in North Carolina for at least six months before filing for divorce. This residency requirement ensures the state has jurisdiction over your case. If you recently moved, you may need to wait before beginning the...

18 September

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2 factors that can make a divorce more complicated

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Some divorces are relatively straightforward. A married couple may decide that the relationship is no longer working, so they mutually agree to end it. However, some situations aren’t as simple as this, and several factors can make divorce much more complicated. Outlined below are two notable examples. When the couple has children It is rarely easy for parents to separate. In fact, many parents try to keep the marriage together purely for the children. When parents split up, it changes the entire dynamic for the children. That’s why child custody cases during divorce are often contentious. Nonetheless, this is something that parents can get...

20 August

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Does filing for divorce mean you have to leave your house?

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During the divorce, you expect to sell your family home. You will then divide the money that you earn with your ex. You will probably both need to find new places to live. Maybe you’ll use the money from the sale as a down payment on another house, or maybe you’ll just find an apartment to rent. But the divorce process can take months. It could be six months or more before you’re actually living in a new location, on your own. What are you supposed to do in the meantime? Do you have to move out of your house after...

20 June

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Checklist for your first divorce attorney meeting

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Your first appointment with a divorce attorney is one of the most critical steps toward finalizing your divorce. Think of this meeting as an opportunity to take control of your situation and make informed decisions about your future. This also sets the tone for your entire divorce process, so it is crucial that you come prepared. Here are some essential tips for making the most of this important meeting. Gather essential documents Before your meeting, make sure that you have all the documents relevant to your marriage, finances and personal life. These may include identification documents, tax returns, bank statements, loan documents,...

14 April

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How can you make divorce better for your kids?

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Most kids will hate the fact that their parents are divorcing. There may be some who realize it is a good thing, perhaps where one parent was violent toward them or their other parent, but generally, kids will be devastated by the thought of their parents splitting up. Your children will almost certainly get over it with time, but there is a lot you can do to increase the likelihood of that and to reduce the suffering they experience. Here are a few to start with: Be nice about each other You may dislike your soon-to-be ex-spouse right now, but they are still...

29 February

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Absolute divorce vs. divorce from bed and board

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Separating from or divorcing a former spouse can be overwhelming and draining. There are requirements, paperwork to submit and big decisions to make. It is also essential to consider that not all states have the same divorce laws. For instance, when it comes to divorce and separation, North Carolina laws use the terms absolute divorce and divorce of bed and board. What is an absolute divorce? An absolute divorce ultimately terminates the marriage bond, and couples can file for this type of divorce on the grounds of being separated for a year (or longer) or the other spouse has incurable insanity, and...